"I'm not getting what I want."
"They didn't treat me right."
"I'm not getting my way."
"This is not the way I want things to go."
Of course, we can have good motives for wanting things a certain way ~ if we want it because it is what God says He wants (we know this from reading His Word).
Why do we as mothers and wives shed tears? Is it for our own injustices we have received? Or do we cry because of a trespass against God (either ours or others)? Do we weep because others are sinning against God and have no repentance, their eternal souls in danger of hell? Do we weep over others being wronged in this sinful world...babies murdered, little girls' childhood innocence stripped away?
Let us be mindful of our tears and cry not only for ourselves, but for others' hurts too... (Philippians 2:4)
Let us pray not only for our own needs, but go before the throne of Almighty God with requests for others.