Showing posts with label Proverbs 31. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Proverbs 31. Show all posts
Friday, December 20, 2019
Let's Get it Straight About the Proverbs 31 Woman
So many professing Christian women today have such a thoroughly career and feminist mindset, that they see the opportunity or mandate to make money in all the women of the Bible. This is especially the case with the Proverbs 31 woman. But, let's get it straight. The Proverbs 31 woman was not a real estate agent, nor did she hold any other sort of career we might dream up. She was a woman of great virtue, who went to great lengths in taking care of her family. She was a description of a virtuous woman that King Lemuel's mother was admonishing him to seek as he looked for a wife. If we use this as a cause or excuse to go out to work away from our families, we are being deceived by the Enemy of our souls. We need only look to Genesis to see who is to be the provider for the household: the husband, who is to toil by the sweat of his brow to see that the needs of his family are met. Why take on that curse, oh Christian women?
For a more thorough look into this assumption about the Proverbs 31 woman, I will now direct you to a post by my friend Lady Lydia, which points out some of the errors of looking at the Proverbs 31 woman as someone who was interested in making money. There is also some discussion on this same trait that is often ascribed to Lydia in the Bible. Neither were career women! And even more than that, we are always to look to the directions given to us in Scripture, and to only follow other people as much as they are following those commands given by the Lord in His Word.
Lady Lydia's post can be read here {Proverbs 31: Career Woman? (And Lydia, Seller of Purple)}.
Another excellent post Lady Lydia has written on the Proverbs 31 woman is Taking Time to Reflect.
Other posts Lady Lydia has done about the Proverbs 31 Woman:
Some of the Other Things in Proverbs 31
Caring for Your Own
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Saturday, May 18, 2019
True Beauty for the Christian Woman
Note: This post has been updated from its original contents. I found out the source that "quoted" George Lawson changed some of his wording, so I have found the original source of this quote and updated the quote here.
"Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised." Proverbs 31:30
Why is not beauty mentioned in the character of the virtuous woman? Is not beauty a bright ornament to her virtue? But there is no mention made of it in this description, because it is a mean quality in comparison of those which are here enumerated. It is but a flower that fades in a day; and the love produced by it is but a transient passion.
When beauty is not sweetened by virtue, the woman who possesses it is but like a sow with a golden jewel in its snout, as Solomon tells us. At the best, beauty cannot secure that love which it raises, for when it becomes familiar to the lover, it palls upon his sight; and sometimes tempts him to curse that enchanting influence which blinded his eyes to more solid qualifications.
But a woman that fears the Lord, whether she has or has not beauty--shall be praised; for true piety is the beauty of the soul, and excels that which lies in complexion and features as much as Heaven is higher than the earth, or eternity longer than time.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the most essential part of the virtuous woman's character. It is this which sanctifies every other part of it, and makes her all glorious within. Its praise is not of men but of God; yet the pleasant effects of it; which spread themselves into every part of her behaviour, cannot but excite the admiration of all beholders.
The flowers of poetry have been exhausted in dressing out beauty to the greatest advantage; but this one verse of Scripture is sufficient to give us just notions of its real value. It is indeed a lovely qualification when it is joined with piety and humility--but without them it is a snare and a trap. In choosing a wife, fools will follow their fancy, and the wise will act according to reason and the Word of God.
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