Showing posts with label Faith. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Faith. Show all posts

Sunday, October 6, 2024

Choose Christ, not Curriculum for your Homeschool + Giveaway!!!

 


Over our long and continuous homeschool journey (over 18 years!), we have used many different curricula and types of curricula--workbooks, textbooks, and a mixture of Charlotte Mason/classical/ and unit studies.  Last year, I had been reading more about Charlotte Mason's method of education and found so much that resonated with me--including nature study, art instruction, music, narrations...And so I set out to make last year our first purely Charlotte Mason year.  I purchased membership for one of these Charlotte Mason curriculums and hurried on to purchase all of the books and supplies we would need for almost the entire year.  Then the books started coming in, and I started prereading.  "Huh.  I don't agree with that," I thought.  There were things I was finding that didn't line up with the Bible.  I contacted the company with my concerns.  Well, just discuss them with your children, I was told.  But these books were teaching something blatantly opposed to God's Word--evolution, for one.

After some time, I decided I would need to choose something else for our family, and I did so.  Curriculum try number two:  ordered all the books and supplies again.  Books came in,  and I started reading.   Hmmm...more things contrary to God's Word.  A majority of these books seemed to have a "woke" flavor, plus some other issues.  But these were "Christian" companies...again I contacted the company with my concerns, but they didn't share mine.  I just couldn't use such material to teach my children, and so I ordered something else.  This curriculum seemed a bit better.  There was no blatant evolution, and the book selections seemed a bit more conservative.  We used this for awhile, but they were really only learning about God in the short Bible readings we had every morning.  Everything else was secular, without any mention of the Creator and Lord of the Universe.  I decided to add in some books from another Charlotte Mason company to give my children more to read, to see if that would help.  But it ended up being too much, and again, there were issues with content I was not comfortable with.  For example, if you do purely Charlotte Mason, you are supposed to have your children read mythology.  My youngest at the time who I was homeschooling, kept asking me, "Mom, why are we reading these weird stories?  I don't like them--they're ridiculous!"  I really agreed with her, but, we were "supposed to" read mythology because somehow it was going to benefit her.  But would it benefit her spiritually?  

After doing a lot of research, I switched most things over to a more conservative Charlotte Mason company, which worked fine for history because we were in the same time period.  The book selections were a bit better, without as much questionable material.  But there was still plenty, without any warnings!  We also tried a Shakespeare play, because if you are doing Charlotte Mason, you are supposed to learn Shakespeare!  Even though I chose a milder play, there were still blasphemies and other course talk and situations in it, which I tried to explain to my children.  But most them told me afterwards that they did not like going through that play and didn't think a Christian man would write such things.  I also fully expected with this company that there would be more mention of the Lord along with our history readings, and a pointing out of His working in the world.  But there was next to nothing of this.  I started thinking upon all of this more seriously and hearkening back to our main purpose in homeschooling our children and why I started in the first place...

It dawned on me that while I was homeschooling my children, they were receiving much of a type of education that they'd get in a public school setting--not receiving a Christian worldview or God-honoring material in their books.  Their "peers" in these books were not a good example to them.  They were not learning that God made the world and everything in it.  They were not being stirred on to holy living.  I knew we had to change something, and it all weighed heavily on me while I purused through curriculm for the upcoming school year.

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Why are you homeschooling, or if you haven't started yet, why are you interested in it?  Is it because you want your children to have a better chance academically?  Do you want your children to not be stuck in a classroom?  Do you want to have more time with them?  Do you want to have more control over what they are learning?  Perhaps you've learned about a certain method of education and want your children to be taught that way.  Maybe you want to make school "fun".  Or, maybe you want to keep your children away from peer pressure.

While none of these reasons are wrong, and some of them are very good and may be helpful for your children, the above reasons may not be enough to keep you going through the years when difficulties arise and you have challenging days.  I think there is one overarching reason that we Christian parents should homeschool our children and that we must keep at the forefront of our minds.  In all of our plans and curriculum choosing, this should be the most important aspect.  What is this "Reason for Homeschooling"?

The reason is to bring our children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.  To show them, in all subjects, and in all ways, the Lord is King and the Creator of all.  That this is His world, and He has been working in it since the beginning of time.  We must also show them that we are not living for ourselves and our pleasure, but for the One Who made us and all things.  We must help them in all their studies to learn about the Lord and their place in His world.

So, I believe we cannot just follow a curriculum, but we need to be actively involved in each step in knowing what our children are learning, and if it is something beneficial to them spiritually.  We must not fully embrace a curriculum, but embrace Christ!  Of course, there are some good Christian curriculum companies out there, but it seems they are getting harder to find.  And I always recommend prereading your children's books, especially if they will be reading them on their own.

If you'd like me to write more on this subject, please let me know in the comments.

But now, on to the fun part for you...


Autumn Blessings Homeschool Giveaway

We’ve teamed up with a wonderful group of homeschool bloggers to bring you something special this fall—the Autumn Blessings Homeschool Giveaway!

Between October 7-13, 2024, you can enter for your chance to win one of two $75 gift cards that could be just what your family needs to bless your homeschool journey.

Click here to enter!

It’s simple to enter, and we’re excited to bless two of our amazing homeschooling families with this gift! 

The winners will be announced on October 14th, so make sure to mark your calendars and join in.

We’re praying this blessing finds its way to the right family!
Terms and Conditions are outlined on the KingSumo Entry form. 
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Wednesday, April 28, 2021

This is Not Love

 

This is not love, when you neglect each other’s soul. Do you believe that you have immortal souls, and an endless life of joy or misery to live? Then you MUST know that your great concern and business is, to care for those souls, and for the endless life. Therefore if your love does not help one another in this which is your main concern, it is of little worth, and of little use. 
~Rev. Richard Baxter (1615­-1691)

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Friday, February 5, 2021

Not Enough Money to Have Children?

 

"Those that trust in God, though they have great families and small incomes, can cheerfully hope that He who sends mouths will send meat. He who feeds the brood of the ravens, will not starve the seed of the righteous." 
~Matthew Henry, comment on Genesis 30:25-26
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Wednesday, February 3, 2021

A Blessing and a Duty



 

"When a woman, considering to what she has been called, does not refuse to endure the pains, or rather the fearful anguish, of parturition, or anxiety about anything else that belongs to her duty, God values this obedience more highly than if, in some other manner, she made a great display of heroic virtues, while she refused to obey the calling of God.” 
~John Calvin

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Tuesday, January 19, 2021

Today's Evangelists


The nature of Christ's salvation is woefully misrepresented by the present-day evangelist. He announces a Savior from hell rather than a Savior from sin. And that is why so many are fatally deceived, for there are multitudes who wish to escape the Lake of Fire who have no desire to be delivered from their carnality and worldliness. 
~A.W. Pink

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Monday, January 4, 2021

How Many Babies Should You Have?


 

There IS an alternative to scheming & plotting how many babies to have & when to have them. It can be summed up in 3 little words: trust & obey. If God is willing to plan my family for me (& we Christians all do believe that God loves us & has a wonderful plan for our lives), then why should I muddle up his plan with my ideas? Only God knows the future. Only he knows how much money we will have next year or when I will reach menopause, or when his Kingdom will desperately need the unique talents of my yet-to-be-conceived son or daughter. Why not leave the driving to him? 
~Mary Pride
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Thursday, November 26, 2020

A Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving 2020


Dear Ladies at Home,

I just wanted to take a few minutes to tell you how thankful I am for you.  It is a blessing to be able to share about homemaking online.  Many of us do not have ladies nearby who attend faithfully to their homes and families, so what a blessing it is to meet each other online!  Let us be thankful to the Lord for all things today, and especially that blessing of being able to be at home, nurturing and caring for our families, no matter how big or how small.  We are unable to have guests with us this year, so it will be just our family gathered together around the Thanksgiving table.  But my husband picked up a large boneless turkey for me to cook!  That is a new one for me, so I hope it goes well.

Here are a few links you might enjoy:

Hoping you all have a blessed day...

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Saturday, October 10, 2020

Eternity in Motherhood

 

Motherhood is an eternal career, not some earthly aspiration that will be left behind one day. 
~Nancy Campbell
Each new life a woman conceives is an eternal soul that will live forever. 
~Nancy Campbell

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Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Lord of All


“If God is the Creator of the entire universe, then it must follow that He is the Lord of the whole universe. No part of the world is outside of His lordship. That means that no part of my life must be outside of His lordship." 
― R.C. Sproul

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Wednesday, September 23, 2020

Two Adams?!



God didn't make two Adams to go out from the home and leave the children. He made an Adam and an Eve. He planned for the mother to be in the heart of the home and embrace and nurture children. 
~Nancy Campbell

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Wednesday, September 16, 2020

Our Condescending God

 

May the Lord keep our minds stayed upon Him. We know not how condescending God is to His people until we try Him. Go and tell Him all your wants. Satan will say, "Do you think that God will listen to such trifles?" He was a liar from the beginning; for every hair of your head is numbered. O for a heart to feel the goodness of God in the rich display of His mercy in bestowing upon sinful man so many mercies, and such a variety of blessings. How unworthy are we of the least of them. And while He provides so bountifully for all our temporal wants, He waits to be gracious to our souls, that He might give us a richer and better inheritance above. How good is God! Do not let us forget private devotion. It is from the neglect of this that all apostates date their fall. 
~ 100 Days With Mary Winslow

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Saturday, September 5, 2020

Being Holy

 

The amount of loafing practiced by the average Christian in spiritual things would ruin a concert pianist if he allowed himself to do the same thing in the field of music. The idle puttering around that we see in church circles would end the career of a big league pitcher in one week. No scientist could solve his exacting problem if he took as little interest in it as the rank and file of Christians take in the art of being holy. The nation whose soldiers were as soft and undisciplined as the soldiers of the churches would be conquered by the first enemy that attacked it. Triumphs are not won by men in easy chairs. Success is costly.  
If we would progress spiritually, we must separate ourselves unto the things of God and concentrate upon them to the exclusion of a thousand things the worldly man considers important. We must cultivate God in the solitudes and the silence; we must make the kingdom of God the sphere of our activity and labor in it like a farmer in his field, like a miner in the earth.  
A. W. Tozer Sermon: Heart-Seekers

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Friday, September 4, 2020

Mothers, Stay Strong



 

Never bend. Know what your convictions are and do not change them with the times. Do not try to join in sinful, worldly living just to be friends with your children. You are the Mother. You are the example. You must stay strong and live out a godly, holy life before your family. Do not bend to their childish, immature worldly whims. I cannot stress this enough. Children will grow up, remembering your example. One day they will cling to the old ways and realize it was your source of strength. Long after you are dead and gone, dear mother, they will remember your strong character and godly ways. Don't underestimate the power of a committed, godly life.  
{Mrs. Sharon White}

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Thursday, September 3, 2020

How We Pray


You have heard a great many Arminian sermons, I dare say; but you never heard an Arminian prayer--for the saints in prayer appear as one in word, and deed and mind. An Arminian on his knees would pray desperately like a Calvinist. He cannot pray about free-will--there is no room for it. Imagine him praying: 
"Lord, I thank you I am not like those poor presumptuous Calvinists. Lord, I was born with a glorious free-will; I was born with power by which I can turn to you of myself; I have improved my grace. If everybody had done the same with their grace that I have--they might all have been saved. Lord, I know You do not make us willing, if we are not willing ourselves. You give grace to everybody; some do not improve it, but I do. There are many that will go to Hell as much bought with the blood of Christ as I was; they had as much of the Holy Spirit given to them; they had as good a chance, and were as much blessed as I am. It was not Your grace that made us to differ; I know it did a great deal--still I turned the point; I made use of what was given me, and others did not--that is the difference between me and them." 
~Charles Spurgeon

Edited to add:

Life as it is right now only really affords me time to post some quotes, but I must say--if you are reading this quote as some sort of insult to Arminians or something like that, you are reading it wrong.  Instead, this quote shows how all saints have a desperate need for the grace of God, and how we can do nothing good of ourselves.  Read it again carefully...."for the saints in prayer appear as one in word, and deed and mind. "

For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Ephesians 2:8-9

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Sunday, August 23, 2020

Conversation in the Home

 

"Few things are important in a home than its conversation, and yet there are few things to which less thought is given. The power of communication, which lies in the tongue, is simply incalculable." 
"But home conversation needs to be more then love to give it its full influence. It ought to be enriched by thought. The Saviour's warning against idle words should be remembered. Every wise-hearted parent will seek to train his household to converse on subjects that will yield instruction or tend toward refinement." 
~J.R. Miller

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Friday, August 21, 2020

Without Prayer

 

"Bibles read without prayer; sermons heard without prayer; marriages contracted without prayer; journeys undertaken without prayer; residences chosen without prayer; friendships formed without prayer; the daily act of prayer itself hurried over, or gone through without heart: these are the kind of downward steps by which many a Christian descends to a condition of spiritual palsy, or reaches the point where God allows them to have a tremendous fall."  
--J.C. Ryle

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Saturday, August 8, 2020

Children are an Heritage of the LORD

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Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. (Psalms 127:3) Heritage: "Inheritance; an estate that passes from an ancestor to an heir by descent or course of law; that which is inherited." ~Webster's 1828 American Dictionary of the English Language

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{painting: Ernesta by Cecilia Beaux 1894} 

Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Homemakers Are Serving God



"You are as much serving God in looking after your own children, and training them up in God's fear, and minding the house, and making your household a church for God, as you would be if you had been called to lead an army to battle for the Lord of hosts." -Charles Spurgeon

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Friday, September 27, 2019

Christian Education for Christians


"This is a call for the pulpits of America to stop appeasing the enemies of God and preach that only Christian education (not just on Sundays or Wednesday evenings) must be the norm for Christians, not the exception." ~ Andrea Schwartz

Today, I want to share a radio program from a few weeks ago that I didn't get around to sharing earlier.  This program asks some important questions, such as why evangelical pastors are not urging parents to get their children out of public schools.  I have not listened to the news segment at the beginning.  If you want to skip that, the Generations Program starts at about 6 minutes.  I also do not own any of Kevin Swanson's books, so cannot endorse them, however I know his heart is to encourage parents to bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

The description and link to the radio program are below.

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August 30, 2019

Conservative and Christian leaders are exhorting parents to get their children out of public schools now. But Christian leaders were saying the same thing in the 1950s. Will the pastors and the parents from Christian homes act now? We must not just react, however, we must embrace a thoroughly Christian discipleship for our children.

This program includes:

1. The World View in 5 Minutes with Adam McManus (VP Pence: "The Bible stays!", "Gay" gene doesn't exist, 14,000 US troops in Afghan coming home?)

2. Generations with Kevin Swanson


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